THE SEVEN COVENANTS OF A DISCIPLE OF JESUS CHRIST: PARTII
Back when I was a senior in seminary, I had what was called a student pastorate in a town called Manchester, Kentucky. One Sunday afternoon I was in the home of one the families in my church. Fourteen-year-old Ben was busy doing his science homework. All of a sudden he blurted out, “Mom! Did you know that the sun is 93 million miles away?” His mother replied, “Of course, Ben. Everybody knows that.” Ben scowled and said, “Well, I didn’t know that. I just thought it came up over here and went down over there!”
That story brings to mind the seed I want to plant in your minds for you to consider throughout the course of this sermon. Does the sun revolve around the earth, or does the earth revolve around the sun? And when we can’t see the sun, is it because the sun has turned away…or because the earth has turned away? Keep that though in mind as we move on.
Last week, we began a sermon series entitled, “The Seven Covenants of a Disciple of Jesus Christ.” I began the sermon by making the case that Christ’s Great Commission, as recorded in the gospel according to Matthew, is the reason for the church’s existence in the first place. The church is called to make disciples. Yet if the church is going to make disciples, the people who populate the church must first become disciples themselves. That’s what the seven covenants of a disciple of Jesus Christ are all about.
The seven covenants of a disciple of Jesus Christ are as follows: worship regularly; pray daily; study diligently; live faithfully; serve joyously; give generously; and witness boldly. Last week we delved a little more deeply into the first covenant: worship regularly. We said in essence that it was Jesus’ custom to worship and it should be ours as well. Yet we should also come to worship expecting God to speak, to move and to act. That’s what keeps our faith from being a mile wide and an inch deep. Today, we’re going to delve a little more deeply into the second covenant of a disciple of Jesus Christ…the covenant that calls us to pray daily.
A disciple of Jesus Christ prays every day. Prayer is communication with God. It ushers us into communion with God. We begin by setting aside at least one time period each day when we will communicate with God. We aspire to live lives guided by God through continual prayer.
We yearn for prayer in our lives these days…yet we seem to hide from it as well. Why, it’s almost as if we’re drawn to prayer and repelled by it at the very same time. Deep down in our hearts we believe that prayer is something we should do – even something we want to do – but it seems as if there’s a great that chasm stands between us and God. Maybe we’re afraid that if we pray we might actually have to change something about ourselves. What happens then is we come to experience the emptiness of prayerlessness.
We’re not quite sure what it is that holds us back. Of course, we’re all busy with work and family obligations, but truth be told…that’s really a smoke screen. Our busyness seldom keeps us from eating or sleeping or going out on the town. Perhaps there’s something deeper – something more significant – that keeps us from having an active prayer life. Perhaps, in reality, the problem is that we don’t really know how to pray.
Living in a postmodern world as we do, we assume that prayer is something we master, like algebra or economics. That puts us in a position where we feel competent and in control. Prayer, however, doesn’t really work like that. Prayer puts us in a position of not being in control. In fact, in prayer, we deliberately surrender control. As Emile Griffin once wrote in a book called The Experience of Prayer, “To pray means being willing to become naïve.” That’s not exactly a feeling with which many of us are terribly comfortable.
Then we wonder if what we’re asking for in prayer is proper. Many years ago, I was leading a confirmation class at the First Presbyterian Church in Luverne, Minnesota. One of the things I like to do at the beginning of every session is to have one of the students lead the class in prayer. That particular day, a boy named Calvin led the class in prayer. He said something like, “Let us pray. Dear God, bless our confirmation class. Bless all the people in this church. And could you please make Jeanie Gamble like me? Amen.”
Someone immediately blurted out, “You can’t God ask for that in prayer!” I said, “Why not? God can take it. God wants to know what’s really on our minds. We are free to bring the deepest, darkest longings of our hearts to God. That’s what it means to be a child of God.”
Truth be told, we all come before God with mixed motives. We come before God feeling generous or selfish, merciful or hateful, loving…or bitter. Yet Jesus reminds us that prayer is a lot like a child making a request of his or her parents. Oh, we may not be pleased with everything our children ask of us, and sometimes the answer might be no, but aren’t we always glad they came to us, just the same?
I guess what I’m trying to say is that God receives us just as we are, and accepts our prayers just as they are. Richard Foster calls this kind of prayer, “Simple Prayer” or, “The Prayer of Beginning Again.” In Simple Prayer we are the focus of our prayers. Our needs, our wants and our concerns tend to dominate the conversation. And that’s all right…in the beginning.
What Richard Foster calls Simple Prayer is probably the most common form of prayer in the Bible. I think of Moses in the wilderness when his people grew tired of bread from heaven. They wanted meat. So Moses cried out to God, “I am not able to carry these people alone. The burden is too heavy for me. If thou must deal thus with me, kill me at once!” Then there was the prayer of Elisha after he took over from Elijah. Some little boys made fun of him and called him a baldhead. Elisha cursed them in the name of the Lord, and then two she-bears came out of the woods and mauled the little boys. And in the 137th Psalm the Israelites were upset with the Babylonians. They cry out to God against their oppressors: “Happy shall be he who takes your little ones…and dashes them against a rock!” Even some of the most significant biblical exemplars of faith would on occasion let their darker sides get the best of them.
The point is, we can bring before God that which lies on our hearts. Simple prayer involves ordinary people bringing ordinary concerns to a loving and compassionate Father. Thus, it was all right for Calvin to ask God to make Jeanie Gamble like him. It’s fine if we ask God to help us pass a calculus test. And there’s nothing wrong with asking God to make us feel better when we don’t feel very good at all. As C.S. Lewis once put it, “We should lay before God that which is really in us, not what we think ought to be in us.” For when we pray, the real condition of our hearts is revealed…and that is when God can truly begin to work with us. Again, when we pray, the real condition of our hearts is revealed and that is when God can truly begin to work with us.
Perhaps the best illustration of this is Tevye in Fiddler on the Roof. He’d look up to the sky and talk about whatever was on his mind. In the song, “If I Were a Rich Man,” he sings, “Lord, Who made the lion and the lamb, You decreed I should be what I am. Would it spoil some vast, eternal plan…if I were a wealthy man? Ya da da da da da da…” Sorry.
Don’t worry about proper praying. Just talk to God. Share your hurts, your sorrows, and your joys…freely and openly. God listens in compassion and love, just like we do when our children come to us. God delights in our presence. And when we do this, perhaps we will discover something of inestimable value. Perhaps we will discover that by praying, we learn how to pray.
A good way to start is by getting yourself a devotional guide. I have a devotional guide that I’ve been using for more than 25 years. It’s called, A Guide to Prayer for Ministers and Other Servants, by Rueben P. Job and Norm Shawchuck. I begin every day with devotions and prayer time. There’s an opening prayer, a Psalm and a daily Scripture reading. Then there’s what they call “Readings for Reflection.” Those are typically snippets from spiritual classics like, The God Who Comes, by Carlo Carretto, or, The Wounded Healer, by Henri Nouwen. And then, there’s a time set aside for prayer. I like to practice what we call contemplative or listening prayer.
What is contemplative prayer? It has to do with listening for God. Typically, when we pray, we fill the airwaves with our incessant chatter. Contemplative prayer has to do with giving God a chance to respond. We actually listen for God in silence.
Here’s how it works. Make yourself completely comfortable so that your body doesn’t become a hindrance in any way. I like to lean back in my chair, put my feet up on my desk, rest my hands in my lap and close my eyes. That’s why I keep my office door closed. If someone actually saw me like that, they’d think I was taking a nap. I’m not taking a nap; I’m praying!
The next thing to do is to completely clear your mind. Some people use what we call “The Jesus Prayer.” They repeat the words, “Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner.” “Lord, Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner.” Repeat those words a number of times, and then just clear your mind. That’s one way.
I like to use a way that was taught by the unknown 14th century English mystic who wrote a book called, The Cloud of Unknowing. He – or she – said to do this. Repeat the words, “God, God, God!” in your mind. Then simply clear your mind. Allow God an opportunity to communicate with you. Shut out the noise of the world, and just listen. Trust me…you’ll be amazed at the results.
But let me add what I think just might be the most important thing of all about prayer. All Christian prayer should be closed in Jesus’ name. Every prayer you’ve ever heard me say is closed with the words “We pray in Jesus’ name” or “Through Jesus Christ our Lord.” Why? Because apart from Jesus Christ, we do not have access to God. We pray in Jesus’ name because it’s through Christ’s sacrifice on the cross…that we have access to God. God made a covenant with the Hebrew people through Abraham. Jesus Christ fulfilled that covenant and established a new covenant – a covenant of grace and mercy. We are a part of that covenant of grace and mercy. And that’s why we pray in Jesus’ name. Ladies and gentlemen, it’s not just a formality. It’s a theological reality.
So let’s go back to our initial analogy of the earth and the sun. The sun is 93 million miles away from the earth, although Allegheny physics professor Dan Willey tells me that I can’t prove it. It’s just something that we accept. The question was, “Does the sun revolve around the earth, or does the earth revolve around the sun? And when we can’t see the sun, is it because the sun has turned away...or because the earth has turned away?” Science tells us that the earth revolves around the sun. And when we can’t see the sun, it’s because the earth has turned away…not the other way around.
Is this a good analogy for us and God? Could we be so bold as to say that God is the center of the universe and that we are not? And could we also say that when we can’t sense God in the day-to-day events of our lives that it’s we who have turned away, and not the other way around? I think we could say that. I think we could say that…and we’d be right.
The second covenant of a disciple of Jesus Christ is: pray daily. Prayer is communication with God. It ushers us into communion with God. We begin by setting aside at least one time period each day when we will communicate with God. We aspire to live lives guided by God through continual prayer. Do that…and you’ll be well on your way to becoming a disciple of Jesus Christ. Amen.